Everybody knows that pleasure and pain can be inextricably linked for those who get turned on by this principle. For others who just can’t understand why pain can be so sexy then read on for the how’s and the whys. If you are one of those that loves spanking, rough sex or any other types of BDSM play then doing it with a gay escort is the best way to enjoy this very common gay sex fetish.
Why Pain Causes Pleasure
Most people have no idea why pain turns them on, they just know they love it, but there are actually some very good reasons why pleasure and pain are so interlinked. Pain perception in the brain is called nociception, this is the mechanism that responds to pain in your body. Once this is stimulated the brain and body work together to deal with that stimulus, pulling away your hand from a flame for example. In addition to physical reaction to pain your body also releases a load of different chemicals in your brain and body to help you deal with any resulting pain, these can be alone or a combination of endorphins, serotonin, melatonin and epinephrin. These are normally feel good hormones there to reduce the impact of the pain and make you feel better, this has an unusual result when you are also horny.
Pain Feels Good
When you are horny many of the same hormones are racing through your body as when you receive pain, and this causes two things to happen. The first is that for some people when they feel pain, they also get a little horny as the association between these two feelings is strong, and the other is that when they are horny their pain threshold is heightened making spanking simply feel good and not painful.
Types of Pain
Everyone’s pain threshold and tolerance for what makes them more horny and what causes actual pain is different so you must always check beforehand how far a gay sex partner wants you to go if you and inflicting some kinky pain on them. Always have a safe word in place in case things get a little heated, this also lets the inflicted beg the punisher to stop when actually they mean, please go on. Spanking, whipping, caning, nipple clamps and all sorts of other exciting devices can be used to inflict great sexual pain on someone and often the more they have the more they want.
Gay Escorts and Spanking
If you do like pain, of whatever threshold, then the best person you can get to inflict this is a gay escort, they are sexy, horny and experienced in delivering the perfect amount of kinky torture so you enjoy being spanked, whipped or otherwise abused and have the best sexual experience ever. Find the best gay escorts in the UK on www.sleepyboy.com and find one you like that loves to dominate so you have the best gay sex experience of your life.