Has your normal gay sex routine got a little boring? There is so much more to great gay sex that a quick blow-job to get your horny and then anal to make you cum! Actually, did you know that great anal play could have nothing to do with penetration at all. If you are looking for some spicy ways to reinvigorate your sex life whether you are with a partner or just have lots of casual gay sex, we have the tips for you!

Enjoy a Deep Massage

Whether you have a massager or simply use your hands, a gay massage is a relaxing joy. Relaxation is key to successful anal penetration this is a great way to start. Massaging the body and the entire pelvic region will ensure he is begging for your dick quicker than you should give it.

Start Outside

To build tension and true anal pleasure you should start on the outside. Massaging, licking and probing the anus before penetration can be extremely pleasurable. Different motions, pressures and fingers and tongues can really build some explosive feeling ready to come out.

Use Stimulating Lube

You can get lube in a variety of sensations so try a cooling, tingling, or warming lube to see which is your favourite. Each will give different sensations and results. For those who need some help from exploding to quickly there are also de-stimulating lubes to help you keep it in for longer.

Relaxing Play Space

Everyone feels sexier and hornier if there is a special place where you can get down and dirty. Add to that anal sex can on occasions be a little messy having a easy to clean up space makes the experience so much better.

Don’t Neglect the Buttocks

A man’s cute butt is a joy to see, but adding some stimulation in this area, is a great way to also get him really hot. Go down the legs and inner thighs also makes him tingle and want more.

Showering Together

As we mentioned, anal sex can get a little messy so showering together before to ensure a great clean and then afterwards to relax together, the shower is a great intimate steamy place to start.

Start Small

If you have a large cock then you may want to work up to it a bit, using a range of dildoes or anal training toys is a great way to get that hole relaxed and ready for a larger penetration.

Gay Escorts Spice It Up

If you really want to switch up your sex life, then finding a gay escort or even a trans escort is a great way to add extra spice to your sex life. Whether you add the escort to play with a partner or have him just for yourself, gay escorts are experts in gay sex and will make all your sexual fantasies come true.