If you were to ask most men they will tell you that getting a good blowjob is easily one of the best parts about gay sex. Although there are a million ways to pleasure a guy with your mouth, the holy grail of oral sex techniques has to be deep throat.
Like anything worth doing, mastering the art of deep throat takes time, patience and a little bit of trial and error. The following are tips and techniques that will have your man’s knees trembling in no time.
The gag reflex
Before setting out on your tonsil-tickling mission it is certainly a good idea to determine the sensitivity of your gag reflex. The best way to test this is to grab something vaguely penis shaped, and take it as far back in your throat as possible. Even if this makes you gag quickly, it will at least make you aware of your starting point.
Don’t worry if you have a particularly light or sensitive gag reflex. It is possible to train your gag reflex so that it improves over time. When cleaning your teeth each day, brush your tongue as far back in your throat as possible without gagging. The trick is that you take it to the limit everyday and, proving you are disciplined with your ‘training’, you should notice a huge difference to your tolerance after only a few short days.
Positioning
Getting yourself in a good position is an essential part of giving great head. You want to be able to provide the maximum amount of pleasure without tying yourself into uncomfortable knots. For deep throat beginners, simply have your man lie on his back with you on your side. That way you are able to control how far back into your mouth you take him, and ease yourself into it.
When you are feeling more confident the best positions for deep throat are ones that align your mouth and throat. This could be either lying on your back and hanging your head over the side of the bed, or leaning back underneath him, so you are looking straight up and he has to point his penis directly down into your mouth. Both of these put less pressure on the throat walls and allow more room for him to move into.
Breathe
This may sound obvious, but getting carried away and forgetting to take deep relaxing breaths is all too common. Not only that, but it can lead to panic and choking. While that can turn some folks on, for others all the coughing and tear streamed eyes can be distracting.
Practice
As with any new skill, becoming a master takes hard work and dedication. Whilst it is easy to try and rush things it is important to take your time and gain confidence slowly, no matter how much the hands on the back of your head are encouraging you! Fortunately, this sort of training is fun for all concerned and the rewards at the end are incredible.