Gay Porn is amazing but are you watching it too much and it is impacting your sex life in a negative rather than a positive way?
Is Gay Porn ruining your sex life?
Gay porn is good, gay porn is great, everyone loves and needs a bit of great gay porn every now and then but if you are honest with yourself, how a=often are you watching gay porn and is it realty all that satisfying. For a quick masturbation session if you are horny gay porn is a quick fix to a horny scenario but its often quicker than you would like and still leaves you a little cold after the fact.
Another issue with gay porn is that it sets unrealistic expectations about what gay sex is actually like (its not just gay porn, but all types of porn that suffers from this) and so can distort your expectations about what you want and what great gay sex looks like.
Gay Porn is Fantasy Land
Gay porn is meant to be a fantasy, an amazing escape from reality where anything can happen, yes the sexy plumber is horny and gay and great looking with an amazing body and wants you on the floor right now! The real-life plumber is definitely not like this!
If you want to construct the scenario for a plumber then there are some great gay escorts out there who would love to help you in that type of role play.
Creating your own fantasy is the joy of porn, the actors and directors in these movies give you great ideas you may not have even though of (or are even possible) and you can re create this with a real life partner, one night stand or escort -whoever you choose.
Quick Orgasms are unfulfilling
Do you remember the last gay porn movie, clip or scene you watched – probably not. That is because having a wank over some web porn is not really satisfying you weren’t really that interested in it, it was just a quicker way to get to that orgasm.
And that’s not a bad thing, but when it gets regular, repetitive or is replaces actual gay sex then it can be a bigger problem than you think.
Watching gay porn on a very regular basis also reduces the impact of your kink, making you seek more and more extreme versions of your kink just to get the same effect, this can make any real sex you are having seem tame in comparison even though if you weren’t watching the porn you would think that sex is really great.
Gay porn cannot and definitely should not replace real life sex, intimacy is important, kissing is important so ditch the gay porn this weekend or next week or even for a whole month and explore again the pleasures of real world gay sex, it will be more amazing that you remember!