The dark world of BDSM is a tantalising one. It’s intriguing and mysterious. It’s naughty, sexy and fun. It’s huge in its repertoire and caters for almost every sexual fantasy and preference. But to the uninitiated, it can seem a daunting place and it can be confusing to know where to begin.
Trans Escorts & BDSM
So, if you’re ready to explore a little light bondage with a trans escort, then follow this guide carefully for some of the best bedroom fun that you’ll ever have.
Preparation is key. Make sure that you have a range of bondage weapons in your sex toy arsenal ready to explore and experiment with. An example of your first bondage kit would be: handcuffs and soft ropes or ties for restraints, a blindfold and a paddle, crop or spanker (or all three!). There are some bits and pieces if you want to augment your collection further, like gags and chastity devices if you’re up for some more extreme fun. Stocking up on lube isn’t the worst idea in the whole world, and hey – even if you don’t use it for bondage play– there will be plenty of sexual scenarios where you will!
Choose your own Adventure
Thrash out the details before the action starts. You should have a discussion with your trans escort beforehand to establish any sexual boundaries that you wouldn’t feel safe crossing, i.e. blindfolding is OK, but cuffing not. Or not both at the same time, for example. Describe any sex play you’d like included, or fantasies, or just some ideas you want to explore. For example, decide on any sub/dom roles, or specific acts that intrigue and excite you, and don’t forget to agree a safe word. This doesn’t detract from the fun, it’s just a safety mechanism you can hold onto in case things go a little further than you’d like.
Keeping an open mind is also a good thing to be discussed beforehand. This is important because this trans escort sex session is your toy to play with for the duration, so grab the chance to maximise your pleasure. This can be a deeply passionate and sexy world so it’s not the worst idea to be willing to try new ideas out – especially after you’ve established a safe word so you can feel secure in your bondage play.
If you aren’t quite sure where to start with this whole bondage thing, you could also think about maybe bringing a little more edge into the bedroom with the addition of some bondage porn – as light or heavy as you like. Remember that this erotic material isn’t to be copied – it’s to act as inspiration for your own bondage plans. Watching porn with your trans escort companion is a good way to get the intimate action started.
So, there you have it, a basic guide to get you started on your bondage journey. It may be something that you never do again, or it might be something that you’d like to indulge in every Friday night!