Domination, S&M, Bondage Sex, BDSM – these are all words to describe the same sexual fetish ballpark. Stocking up on some bondage gear and bringing it into your sex life can encourage the discovery of the delights of mixing pain and pleasure. For some, it’s a powerful aphrodisiac and indulging your fantasies with a Gay escort can allow you the freedom to compartmentalise bondage play from your day to day life, if that’s what you prefer.
Behind closed doors is one thing, but daring to move your bedroom activity outside is a titillating thought.
All the gear for all your ideas
Depending on how far you want to go, there’s a plethora of options available to you. You can start soft with some special light bondage rope, a blindfold and a tickle teaser and graduate to the more extreme bondage toys. Ball gags, whips, chains and nipple clamps can all be enjoyed if you’re willing to take it a bit further. Smack one another, hog tie your sexual partner (or be hog tied) or you can go all out with anal beads and wrist and ankle cuffs for proper restraint.
The outdoor experience
Why might you want to take your bondage sex outside of the bedroom? Perhaps it’s the element of danger that appeals or you may want to simply experiment with different areas and unusual thrills. Being outside can offer freedom and extra possibilities. Ultimately, indulging in a little kink outdoors with a Gay escort can make your sexual encounter all the more exciting. Allowing your gay escort to tie you to a gate or tree and make you submit to all of his sexual desires whilst anyone can walk past could send your arousal stratospheric.
For extra inspiration, the internet can be your friend, or failing that, good old erotic literature, and remember to find somewhere nice and private, while the thought of someone walking past can be titillating, the reality is probably very awkward for all involved.
Playing safe
To indulge in outdoor bondage games requires you to trust your Gay escort. But it’s also important to have firm boundaries so no-one oversteps the mark. A pre-agreement with your chosen escort to use safe words, or any other type of get-out clause. This is especially useful if you’re planning on being gagged and means that you can both be more relaxed and allow you to properly engage with one another as you explore the kinkier side of sex.
Remember that you don’t need to accelerate straight to the bold moves if you don’t want. It’s perfectly possible to enjoy a gentler approach, especially if you’re just starting out in the world of S&M.
Ultimately, outdoor bondage fun with your Gay escort gives you the perfect freedom and room for possibility that will ensure your sexual encounter goes exactly the way that you want. But it’s important to bear in mind that communication between the two of you needs to be totally clear from the outset. Actually, good communication is absolutely key. If mixing pleasure and pain is your thing, then outdoor bondage exploits could definitely be the way forward for you.