Oral sex, blowjobs, sucking off, fellatio – so many names for the same thing and describing so many different techniques. But ultimately, they all mean the same thing, although that doesn’t mean that you always have to do the same thing!
Oral Sex Tips
If you’re a man then it follows that you know what to do, right? Possibly, but not always, is the answer. What works for you may not work for someone else. And seeing as great oral sex has the potential to make or break a hot, steamy session, it’s important to get it right. So, how is it done?
- Do it like you mean it. It’s that simple. Don’t treat it as the poor man’s brother of anal sex, and don’t see it as a warm-up activity to the main event.
- Be certain and decisive. Just get going and get enjoying, if it leads on to something else then great – but if it doesn’t then you need to be confident that you’ve delivered a really good oral sex orgasm.
- Don’t over-complicate it. There are lots of different techniques and giving a blowjob is not the time to rattle through them like a repertoire of sexual options.
- It’s called sucking-off for a reason. Start simple and see where it goes.
- And now for mastering the holy grail of oral sex – deep-throating. Hardcore porn teaches us that this is fantastic and very achievable, but the reality is that it very often isn’t, so it’s best to be confident before you attempt this particular thing. The key is practice, practice, practice! Once you’ve mastered this, you’re officially a pro.
- Experimentation is your friend. Try different positions and angles until you find one that works for you. For example, a good one for deep-throating is lying on your back with your head dangling over the edge of the mattress, allowing your partner to slide his dick down your entire throat. That’s the theory, anyway. You’ll read a lot of theories but you need to test them out for yourself.
- Don’t underestimate your tongue usage. Your naughty tongue usage, that should be. There are lots of ways to stimulate a cock with your mouth and the tongue plays a vital role. But don’t over-use it, there are other ways to finish the job.
- Licking, swirling and teasing are the conventional ways of pleasuring with your tongue, but don’t make the mistake of running through all of them quickly and then starting over. Take your time. Concentrate. You can even just leave your tongue loose, wet and warm against his dick as you move your mouth up and down.
- Pay careful attention to your partner’s response to your oral sex techniques. Try each one slowly and languorously and judge which one works by the reaction it provokes – it should be obvious!
- And the final tip is to always keep eye contact. Keeping that gaze going as you suck his cock is the ultimate stimulation as you show that what you’re doing is all for him.